Have you
ever heard the argument of nature versus nurture? Nature is what we naturally
would do on our own. Nurture is the things we do because we have people in our
lives leading and guiding us.
Some argue
we are who we are because of our natural disposition.
Others
argue we do the things we do because of how we were taught.
For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit,
and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other:
so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. (Galatians 5:17)
U R the
difference between nature and nurture. U R the one who can make a
difference in others' lives. A child that is brought up in a home with great
nurturing skills will be more capable in the work place and more able to
succeed in life.
Those that
have been nurtured in the word of God are better able to stand against the
wiles of the devil. U R the one that needs to be doing the nurturing.
I'm
saddened to say this, but the generation now entering adulthood didn't have the
nurturing of prior generations.
We are
paying the price for this lack of nurturing and will continue to pay the price.
This know also, that
in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their
own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents,
unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, continent,
fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, high minded, lovers
of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying
the power thereof: from such turn away. (II Timothy 3:1-5)
What happens
to children left to rear themselves? They have more of a tendency to their
natural ways.
The
scriptures warn us about this. Our nature is naturally sinful. Watching my
grandchildren, as adorable and sweet as they are; the sin nature can be seen
trying to rear its head.
They need
the nurturing of their parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and teachers in
order to bring them up in the admonition of the Lord.
Children, obey your
parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is
the first Commandment with promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou
mayest live long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to
wrath: but bring them up in the
nurture and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:1-4)
Did this
verse say "fathers" because they are the only ones to do it? No, but
the father, being the head of the house, needs to set the pattern and guide his
family in the right direction.
There is a
huge responsibility on the fathers to be setting the pace for his family to
follow. Remember U R the one that can make a difference in the world around
you, as you nurture your children.
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